It is possible to be friends right after a breakup?

It is possible to be friends right after a breakup?

After breakup is friendship ok ???

It is possible to be friends right after a breakup?

 

This is a tricky question with different answers, to be honest it depends upon each person individually but we are going to talk about two people in general.

  1.       Who ended things on a good note

  2.       Who ended things on a bad note

For the 1st one yes you can and why should is expand below

  1.       Support

  2.       Trust

  3.       Understanding

For the 2nd one no you should not why? Explained below

  1.       Hurt

  2.       Jealousy

  3.       Strained relations

This is for the 1st type

This is for the 1st type

 

Because you both ended things on a good note, you both agree upon forgetting your past relation and are ready to move forward simultaneously. So this new friendship will give you some amazing benefits like.

Support

Support

 

You thought he/she was good at supporting you when you were in a relationship try them as your friend. While being your friend they will come up as honest as they should because now they don’t have an alternative back in their mind. The time they spent with you or you spent with them has made them realize what person you are and what must be good for you.

Trust

Trust

 

They are the person you trusted once in a life and you know that your personal talks are safe with them, this is something you don’t have to test with time because you already have the answer, plus they will make you feel comfortable about it. Having someone who you can trust is a blessing in real life.

Understand

understanding

 

They understand you more, because for some time you both shared a more intimate bond with each other than with anyone else. They understand your fear, your likes and dislikes and your life overall. not only that after befriending you they will see the picture more clearly because now there isn’t a commitment now.

This is for the 2nd type

Well because things didn’t go well there are still things that you have to work on like motioned below.

Hurt

Hurt

After things have ended, you will be severely hurt because this is something which is not in your control, and you have to give time to let them settle down.  In this condition if you see them again and again then your hurt feeling will resurface reminding you about your trauma and end of something beautiful.

Jealousy

Jealousy

 

Because things didn’t end well, your mind is still trying to solve it. But it is not the same with the other one, they will not stop their life because of you and might be seeing someone, and because you are connected to them with friend zone you will face an emotion called jealousy. This will hurt both your and the other person’s feelings.

Strained relations

Strained relations

 

Because things didn’t end on a good note, your relations with them are strained. This will result in internal conflict and can give rise to more fights between you two whenever you meet.

So this is the conclusions that we came up to hopefully you can think of something as well.

 

 

3 Comments

  1. i feel with your Ex you can’t be friend. Sometimes you feel happy for them and sometimes it hurts. so better to move on

  2. I feel you can’t be friend after break up. Sometimes you feel happy for them and sometimes it really hurts. so better to move on

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